Video Games
Celeste - A great 2D platformer with accessibility options so anyone can play it, about overcoming depression, made and scored by some cool trans people
Fallout: New Vegas - Kind of a trans meme, but you can be pretty gay in it.


TV Shows/Movies
The Owl House - Basically a Gravity Falls spiritual successor about witches with a pretty LGBT cast
The Mitchells Vs The Machines - Not that queer, but a really fun movie romp with the MC being a lesbian
Kill La Kill - A bit more risqué and definitely 18+ only even if there's no *actual* sex, but about overcoming fashion/fascism, has a super gay relationship
Infinity Train - Someone with troubles ends up on a train to nowhere in an unfamiliar dimension, second season features a super-enby-coded protagonist because the network wouldn't let it be explicit :(


Podcasts
Among The Stars And Bones - Xenoarcheology kinda-horror audiodrama with some LGBT characters
Dark Ages - A high fantasy workplace comedy, LGBT characters
Midnight Radio - A lesbian ghost love story
Spines - Horror podcast with a primary enby/lesbian relationship
Unseen - Urban fantasy anthology with plenty of gay


Webcomics
Sunjackers - Pony webcomic in a cyberpunk dystopia, pretty gay and trans https://askthesunjackers.tumblr.com/
I Want To Be A Cute Anime Girl - A trans awakening, https://www.webtoons.com/en/challenge/i-want-to-be-a-cute-anime-girl/list?title_no=349416


My Little Pony Fanfiction (yes I read a lot)
Blueblooded Bluebell - A trans coming out story https://www.fimfiction.net/story/472946/blueblooded-bluebell
Long Road to Friendship - A story about lesbian redemption https://www.fimfiction.net/story/144198/long-road-to-friendship
Pressed for Time - Vinyl and Octavia need to hug for eight hours – or the building explodes. https://www.fimfiction.net/story/430506/pressed-for-time
The Mare Who Once Lived on the Moon - Steampunk dystopia lesbian romance about going to the moon https://www.fimfiction.net/story/247031/the-mare-who-once-lived-on-the-moon


Youtubers/musicians:
Vylet Pony - Trans pan ace poly music artist, super LGBT+, great music https://www.youtube.com/c/VyletPony
Sarah Z - Does documentaries on Fandom history, especially LGBT fandom history https://www.youtube.com/c/SarahZ
Lindsay Ellis - Does book analysis, usually on gay stuff https://www.youtube.com/c/LindsayEllisVids
Viva Riverie - Trans animator https://www.youtube.com/c/IMMATOONLINK
Eldena Doubleca5t - Trans fandom documentarian https://www.youtube.com/c/EldenaDoubleca5t
Forest Rain - Trans musician, specialises in rock https://www.youtube.com/c/ForestRainMedia